He does not tell me his stuff
Keep me Anonymous “Sometimes, I dunno what to think about my BF… It’s this thing about low moments. I have them sometimes and he has his and that is understandable because everyone experiences that sometimes. Now here is the case. When I get mine, he wants me to talk to him, to listen to his positive words, his encouragements and keep him updated on things. I do all that and he likes it but when it comes to him, he does not want to tell me exactly what it is… He will mention that ‘something is not right’ or he will just say he is going through something, but he won’t say what exactly he’s going through. When I also try to talk to him, he doesn’t seem to know or see that I’m concerned about him. He hardly updates me on what is happening and doesn’t even call unless I check up on him. That feels cold. I just hope he would do same as he asks me to do… How do I approach this?"