Should I move on or try harder to win her back?

 Please keep me anonymous

So, I started dating this lady who is in level 200 and myself level 300. Anonymous as usual.

She indeed gave me a tough time wooing her but as they say, there's light at the end of every tunnel so she eventually accepted, and everything was cool. She used to come to my hostel at times unannounced, didn’t have a problem with that though. We didn't “do the do” notwithstanding other sexually related stuffs. Few months into our relationship, I officially proposed. You dey bab?I mean ring then things all come inside.It went on at her Hall on campus. Had wanted to do it at my place but circumstances didn't allow that.

Ff, this lady rejected the proposal with the excuse of giving ourselves more time. I was overwhelmed and a bit emotional, so I left. She offered to see me off, but I declined that.

When I got to my hostel, I called her and asked of her reasons and this lady was mad at me la. She was of the view that, I walked out on her and that literally means, I walked out of the relationship. And that why should she accept my proposal without first thinking about it? What really pained me the most was when she said "Me ho nbɔ me ho so yɛ” Which literally means she's not short of guys or something like that. Charley, I vexed within but didn't say a pim.

We vacated few days after that embarrassing episode. I called her some days into the vacation and talked things over with her on phone, but she blatantly told me it's over and that I should move on.

Should I move on or try harder to win her back ?

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