What do you guys suggest?

 

Please keep me anonymous

My story might be plenty, but I will try and make it short

So, i met this guy a month ago

We started talking and he asked me out initially I didn’t want to, but he kept on insisting and since he is cool why not?  He is a busy person, so we barely see each other. It’s been a month now and he recently sent me a message telling me he is tired and wants to break up without any reason. I forced every truth out of him and to my surprise his ex-girlfriend came to beg him and he feels like he still likes her so he wants me out of the picture now but I remember asking him several times before the relationship that does he still like the girl but he said no so why now?

 I am really broken, and I started to beg him to think of me too and he came up saying will I join? I was like seriously? I said no. I cried the whole night and decided to let him go but the issue here is that he is begging me to give him time to think but I told him you have already made your decision before even thinking about it and the painful thing is that he called the girl her serious girlfriend so he is not interested again. Someone who left you three months ago. I asked him couldn’t he have told the girl that he has a serious girlfriend who is me?! Meaning he never liked me or what.

Guys this guy doesn’t give me anything oo but I effortlessly love him. Do you guys think when he changes his mind I should take him back or does he really like me or not

Please help me with advice. I am broken here

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