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Red flag or Nah?

 Guys I need your opinion on this So I noticed my boyfriend doesn’t call me If I don’t call him and I complained about it. He said he doesn’t have airtime and blah blah blah… But I noticed he also doesn’t update me on how his day is going and always bails out on conversations until I initiate it again. Two days ago, I was going out and informed him via text. He went offline and I decided not to text him. I got back from where I went and still, he hadn’t replied. I texted him around 5:30pm and it ticked once. He texted back at 9:50pm as if nothing happened and posted that his light was out from 9:20 to 9:30pm. We didn’t talk that night, and the same thing happened yesterday. He called around 9pm and said I couldn’t call to check up on him to see if he’s alive or not na he just got back from town. I said I know he’s alive and he replied by saying okay later. He then sent a message asking why I’m giving him attitude and I told him this whole thing feels one-sided and I’m only try...

Are My Reasons Valid

 Keep me anonymous So I met a guy who really liked me and was very generous. He spent a lot on me, even on unnecessary things. We dated for a while and eventually, I decided to visit him.  When I got to his end, I was surprised. For someone who spends so much on a girl, he lived in just a single room with a mattress, a wardrobe and a small TV. I asked why he wasn’t living in a bigger place, at least an apartment or something, and he said he didn’t see the need for that since he lived alone. When I asked where his mum and siblings lived, he said he just booked them a guest house.  I advised him to get a bigger place since he could afford it. Eventually, we found a place and I helped him furnish it. He was really grateful. His mum visited on Friday and now he wants to introduce me to her, but im not ready for that. I don’t see him as someone I’d want to marry. He relies on me for everything. Constantly seeking my advice before making any decision. If I tell him to eat, he e...