Anonymous Stories

 Keep me anonymous So I met a guy who really liked me and was very generous. He spent a lot on me, even on unnecessary things. We dated for a while and eventually, I decided to visit him.  When I got to his end, I was surprised. For someone who spends so much on a girl, he lived in just a single room with a mattress, a wardrobe and a small TV. I asked why he wasn’t living in a bigger place, at least an apartment or something, and he said he didn’t see the need for that since he lived alone. When I asked where his mum and siblings lived, he said he just booked them a guest house.  I advised him to get a bigger place since he could afford it. Eventually, we found a place and I helped him furnish it. He was really grateful. His mum visited on Friday and now he wants to introduce me to her, but im not ready for that. I don’t see him as someone I’d want to marry. He relies on me for everything. Constantly seeking my advice before making any decision. If I tell him to eat, he e...

Keep me Anonymous  "Is it good to develop emotional dependency on someone u love?  So there's this lady i love so much and im always thinking about her I do everything for her but she makes me feel like im doing too much. I always want be around her but hmmm asem oo. U see that feeling when energies from boths side aren’t matching ? hmmm. Now i feel like what people are saying about the fact that when u love someone, dont “show” it else they will begin to mess up. I feel like thats really true because that’s exactly what im going through right now.  It hurts but its well. Maybe im really doing to much. Should i reduce the love i have for her a little or i should let go because its toxic from her side to make a man in love with you feel like he's doing too much when all hes trynna show u true love?"

  Keep me Anonymous “Sometimes, I dunno what to think about my BF… It’s this thing about low moments. I have them sometimes and he has his and that is understandable because everyone experiences that sometimes. Now here is the case. When I get mine, he wants me to talk to him, to listen to his positive words, his encouragements and keep him updated on things. I do all that and he likes it but when it comes to him, he does not want to tell me exactly what it is… He will mention that ‘something is not right’ or he will just say he is going through something, but he won’t say what exactly he’s going through. When I also try to talk to him, he doesn’t seem to know or see that I’m concerned about him. He hardly updates me on what is happening and doesn’t even call unless I check up on him. That feels cold. I just hope he would do same as he asks me to do… How do I approach this?"  

 Hello Anonymous I have this friend of mine who is dating a well to do guy. Infact the guy is a doctor. But this my friend is cheating on him. According to her, the guy does not satisfy her.  I feel like it is wrong because the guy literally goeson the ground for her. I honestly want to inform the guy about it but I feel like it is betrayal or something. It really hurts me to see her doing this to an innocent guy and I in the end, have to cover up for her anytime the guy is suspecting her.  I would not like my brother or any other guy to go through this. What do I do?

I once went to visit my babe in the female hostel at the university and we both slept off. I woke up at 9:32pm and there was a serious problem because in the hostel, guys were not allowed in the hostel beyond 9:00pm. My babe peeped out and saw girls were already naked. She told me I am finished if I come out. She suggested wear her cloth and cover my face with a long hair tie and walk out like a lady, but I was scared cos I was going to see many naked girls. I asked my babe how understanding her roommates could be and she said one of them was a fellowship Mama that would surely report if she knew. My babe said she was going outside and tell them snake had entered their room, but I said no coz they will go and call security or something. I told my babe to bring the wig and a wrapper. I wore the wig and covered myself with the wrapper then told her to tell her roommates when they come that I am a friend who came to visit but slept over coz I was not feeling fine and couldn’t go bac...

  Keep me anonymous. I really like this girl and she seems to like me too. The thing is, anytime she brings up the issue of not having money and I brush it off to avoid billing, she starts acting weird. If I had money, I'd give her or sort her out but for now, I'm broke. Yeah, I'm broke for now. I have plans I haven't discussed with her yet. I haven't told her about it. I'm just studying her till it happens. We're in the talking stages though. I really like her but with this acting up, do y'all think she's all about what I have to offer financially?