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Trapped in a Girls' Hostel

I once went to visit my babe in the female hostel at the university and we both slept off. I woke up at 9:32pm and there was a serious problem because in the hostel, guys were not allowed in the hostel beyond 9:00pm. My babe peeped out and saw girls were already naked. She told me I am finished if I come out. She suggested wear her cloth and cover my face with a long hair tie and walk out like a lady, but I was scared cos I was going to see many naked girls. I asked my babe how understanding her roommates could be and she said one of them was a fellowship Mama that would surely report if she knew. My babe said she was going outside and tell them snake had entered their room, but I said no coz they will go and call security or something. I told my babe to bring the wig and a wrapper. I wore the wig and covered myself with the wrapper then told her to tell her roommates when they come that I am a friend who came to visit but slept over coz I was not feeling fine and couldn’t go bac...

Should I proceed to propose or not?

  Keep me anonymous. I really like this girl and she seems to like me too. The thing is, anytime she brings up the issue of not having money and I brush it off to avoid billing, she starts acting weird. If I had money, I'd give her or sort her out but for now, I'm broke. Yeah, I'm broke for now. I have plans I haven't discussed with her yet. I haven't told her about it. I'm just studying her till it happens. We're in the talking stages though. I really like her but with this acting up, do y'all think she's all about what I have to offer financially?

"I sent her the wrong pic"

Keep me anonymous. I met this girl on Snapchat where we vibed and exchanged contacts. So, I texted her on WhatsApp but she’s barely online, so she started complaining that I don’t have time for her as a friend and all sort of accusations, so I decided to call her on phone. I started calling this girl almost every evening and she does same but the problem here is that I lied to her about my identity. She asked me to send her my pics and I sent my friend’s pics rather but per the way things are going I can see the girl dey feel fine boy. She requested a video call and I made my friend which I used his pic to answer and talked to her so my friend knows about it though.. Now I don’t know how to confess to her that the pic I sent isn’t mine and the worst part is I have developed some feelings for her that I wouldn’t want my friend to take her from me if not I would have just linked my guy make he chop de girl.   My question is, should I tell her the truth or I should just play a...

She thinks I am ignoring her

 Please keep me anonymous My girlfriend is always complaining that I sleep when we are on the phone. It's not my fault that I'm sleepy when we are talking. We normally talk in the night around 10pm and by that time I'm very tired and sleepy. She doesn't understand and thinks I'm ignoring her or something (I'm not sure) What should I do?

Should I move on or try harder to win her back?

 Please keep me anonymous So, I started dating this lady who is in level 200 and myself level 300. Anonymous as usual. She indeed gave me a tough time wooing her but as they say, there's light at the end of every tunnel so she eventually accepted, and everything was cool. She used to come to my hostel at times unannounced, didn’t have a problem with that though. We didn't “do the do” notwithstanding other sexually related stuffs. Few months into our relationship, I officially proposed. You dey bab?I mean ring then things all come inside.It went on at her Hall on campus. Had wanted to do it at my place but circumstances didn't allow that. Ff, this lady rejected the proposal with the excuse of giving ourselves more time. I was overwhelmed and a bit emotional, so I left. She offered to see me off, but I declined that. When I got to my hostel, I called her and asked of her reasons and this lady was mad at me la. She was of the view that, I walked out on her and that li...

What my hubby's bosom friend did

 Anonymous! My husband's friend came around some time ago. He came to drop something for my husband and when he was leaving, he asked that I give him a hug cuz he was feeling lonely, his wife travelled abroad earlier this year. I reluctantly gave him the hug because he's a friend. I realized he hugged me too tight and when he was about freeing himself, he kissed me on the lip and rushed out. I didn't say anything, I tried to understand why he did it but later just ignored. I thought he might just be missing his wife. Some days later he sent me a text asking if I reported him to my husband and I said NO. From there, he started texting regularly and passing by the house to give me gifts and other things when he knows hubby isn't around. We both lost control one time and had s3x. I always knew it could happen so I tried to keep my distance, but it eventually happened, and I couldn't control it. I wasn't happy we did what we did, though I enjoyed it, I adm...

Should I fufill his fantasy?

  Hi Bro, please keep me anonymous. I’m a lady of 32year with husband and 2kids. Whiles I was in the tertiary I needed money to pay for my hotel and school fees, so I meet a man who agreed to help me out with a condition of having a 3some with him and another lady which I agreed, and did it because I was stranded. Fast forward at a point in the relationship when I met my husband, he asked of the craziest thing have ever than and I foolishly mentioned this secret to him. Now after 5years of marriage my husband says his fantasy is to have a 3some so I should work on it for him and trust me I’ve been running away from this conversation for about 2years now. He now says I don’t love him because I’m refusing to satisfy his request which is beginning to affect our marriage. I’m confused as to doing it or not because this man does everything I want for me but in this case I told him I can’t revisit the past and if I haven’t proven myself of loving him then I’m sorry. Kindly post thi...

I am so devistated

I need advice. Keep me anonymous please. I'm fucked up right now. I have this male friend and we've been cool for years. I knew he liked me, but he couldn't say it and I also ignored him because he really had nothing to offer me. He was broke and he had nothing going on for him. I liked him too though. He was caring and possessed all the qualities I want in a guy but because he was broke, I put those emotions to bed. Along the line, he dated and after a short period the girl he was with broke up with him because she noticed her boyfriend was in love with me. I was also dating someone else. I was also in love with this male friend of mine but couldn't show it. I was being a hard girl and I focused on my then boyfriend. My boyfriend also broke up with me because he claims I was on love with my male friend and it was obvious. My male friend proposed to me, and I accepted his proposal within a heartbeat. I loved him and I didn't care about him being broke but afte...

What do you guys suggest?

  Please keep me anonymous My story might be plenty, but I will try and make it short So, i met this guy a month ago We started talking and he asked me out initially I didn’t want to, but he kept on insisting and since he is cool why not?   He is a busy person, so we barely see each other. It’s been a month now and he recently sent me a message telling me he is tired and wants to break up without any reason. I forced every truth out of him and to my surprise his ex-girlfriend came to beg him and he feels like he still likes her so he wants me out of the picture now but I remember asking him several times before the relationship that does he still like the girl but he said no so why now?   I am really broken, and I started to beg him to think of me too and he came up saying will I join? I was like seriously? I said no. I cried the whole night and decided to let him go but the issue here is that he is begging me to give him time to think but I told him you have alre...

What can i do to let him stay?

  Post this for me I need advice . I'm messed up rn. My boyfriend and I have literally been betrothed to each other. That's what I'd say because for as long as I can remember, our parents have pitched us together as husband and wife . We officially started dating at age 13 and we're now 24. We've attended the same schools throughout. Same classrooms and lecture halls. During our tertiary days, we lived together. His parents got us a self-contain apartment around Agbogba and we lived there throughout and shared the same bed throughout. Due to my Dad's links, we were posted to the same place to do our national service and as usual, we lived together. Ff to this day. We live together at his parents’ house and they're amazing. The entire family loves me. Even the extended family. Everyone knows me and each member of my family knows him as well. But the thing is, he wants to further his education outside the country . I'll do mine later. He'll b...

She hurt me real bad

  Dear King, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend, now my ex, for over a decade. We started dating when we were both in high school and due to some family finances, she had to drop out of school. Upon completion of my tertiary education, I secured a good job and begun to take care of her. I enrolled her in remedial classes and took care of her university education when she gained entry. I did all this knowing she was my better half because we both agreed to get married when we are both financially stable. A year into her national service, her attitude changed. Her friend confessed to me that she was dating one of her bosses. My girlfriend broke up with me and sent me a bank transaction of GHS10,000.00 to cover the cost I invested on her. I’m heartbroken. What should I do?

Know who your REAL friends are

  I am so emotional right now. Please bear with me. I want to pull my heart out. I met this guy at a party that I went with a friend. So the guy came to me and collected my number. He was so good looking, honestly. Exactly my type. We spoke for some time and things went on well. I'm currently working. My mom is in Finland and my dad is normally busy, so mostly I'm alone at home (live with Just my cousin and the gateman). I was so happy we were talking because he kept me company most of the time. Not knowing, this was all planned by the girl I went to the party with so the guy will use me and spend my money. I did the best I can for this guy. He told me his rent was due so I helped him. My dad literally gives me anything I want so anytime he wants something, I try my best to give. He had a friend that I got to know of when I went over to his place one time but we didn’t really talk. That day I brought my guy some gifts… his favorite perfume and other stuff. That friend of hi...

Assit her or no

Hello So, I have this young lady I’m having an affair with. She’s extremely neat when it comes to her personal hygiene, her character is okay, sex is perfect, she doesn’t really bother me with money issues (I give her when I can though). Now the issue is she is a JHS leaver, just 23 years of age and I’m 27. I want to know; would you advise me to help this young lady attain or continue her studies?   PS:  To add your personal stories, click  my story            To leave a comment, follow the instruction below or click  here

Will it Affect me?

Dear King,       This is not a story. I just want to know if masturbating as a lady can have any medical implications on you.  Any effects at all PS:  To add your personal stories, click  my story            To leave a comment, follow the instruction below or click  here

He does not accept anything I offer

Anonymous King, There's this guy I'm dating, if I give him money, he doesn't take. Wanna buy food for him, he'd say no. Recently, I had to force food on him. He told me he hasn't been paid yet this month. Lemme loan you so you pay later, he said no. Is he doing this cos he doesn't wanna look like a gold-digger?  PS:  To add your personal stories, click  my story            To leave a comment, follow the instruction below or click  here

She Wants More

 Dear Anonymous King, So yesterday I wanted to know what sex was like. I'm a shy person so I was even afraid by just the thought of having sex. What if she gets pregnant? What if I got infected? Those were the thoughts I had but I ignored all and went to a friend’s place (girl). There, she asked if I was a virgin and I said yes. I was even shy to reply. We watched a movie for a while and throughout the movie, I realized she was trying to come closer to me. (Is this really happening? I asked myself) She led me to her room, undressed me and gave me what I call the BJ of my life.   She also requested that I eat her out which I did. Then I placed my d in and we had it. Now the thing is, she’s been calling me and asking for more of what we did. I don’t know what to do now. PS:  To add your personal stories, click  my story            To leave a comment, follow the instruction below or click  here

Paying good with Evil

 Please I need your opinions on this. My girlfriend is marrying coming saturday and I know nothing about it. I was the one that raised this girl through SHS beginning to end. I bought everything she ever asked for and all the bills without hesitation, I bought her food stuff while in school like she's going to stock her provision shop and now she's marrying without my knowledge, she's still with me even while I'm typing laughing to me all fine like nothing is happening. I just thank God I had a mother that advised me to think before sending her to university which I obey and thought as a man. After she completed last two years my girl mounted university pressure on me like she was going to die same year but I followed my mother's advice and used that money to starting a building which I didn't tell her about, the building is nothing to write about and hasn't been roofed yet but I thank God I never wasted the money on this evil of a person. I went through her...

Did I do the right thing?

I need your opinion on this please. I’m a landlord’s son and my dad’s been having some misunderstandings with this tenant cos he doesn’t like how she dresses half-naked at home. The compound is divided though but she is on the upper floor of the building so we still see her. We actually talk a lot (the tenant and I). She has told me about her man In Ghana (let’s call him A) but didn’t mention the main man who is outside the country (call him B). She made me believe all she had was because of A not knowing its B who’s been taking care of all that.   This year, some people came asking for a room but I told them none were available, but they insisted on taking my dad’s contact for further enquires so I gave them mine instead. One morning I got a text from B reminding me he was the one who sent those people to come and ask for the room. (Atp I didn’t know B was dating my dad’s tenant). Still on the same room issue, he insisted on talking with my dad, but dad refused to speak with h...

Is he inactive?

 Keep me anonymous        "So i have a boyfriend who has not touched me. At this point i am contemplating on cheating on him because honestly, I am tired. It has been two years already and he has never touched me!!" PS:  To add your personal stories, click  my story            To leave a comment, follow the instruction below or click  here